My girl and her vibrator. the story of us!?

Grab a soda and sit down...this might take awhile. Ok so...she bought a toy to 'spice things up' and said we should experiment. I was really happy thinking it would be great for us. WRONG. She came in like a minute as opposed to me doing her and her coming in ten to fifteen. How do i compete with that? I can already predict all the 'dude, its just a toy...at the end of the day she sleeps next to you' answers...but hear me out. Ever since meeting her i didnt masturbate because she feels like should do the trick. and she duznt either but pulls out a toy when we are together. She even told me tht if im so jealous of the toy why dont i get a fleshlight and make her jealous. heres the thing...im not tryna make anyone jealous. She says it makes our life good..but i didnt know it was bad in the first place. if she wants adventurous i suggested and she turned it down saying how it was not comf with her so i didnt push it. so here's my question... What do i tell her? should i just put up with a 10"er?